(this is what i promise before)
1. avoid meeting him alone. ask a few female friends to accompany us. n when talking to him lower our eyes (it is stated in the Al-Quran)
2. if we have problem in our assignment, only ask him when none of your female friends cannot answer them.
3. avoid texting with him. because it is a laterally khalwat, as it is just between a man and a female. n may be one of zina hati. nauzubillah.( i am trying to avoid such this thing but sometimes 'rebah' jugak. :'(
4. treat them as man not as your other girlfriends. man is man. must be differences between our girlfriends and boyfriends.